Man by nature is a selfish animal

Kadhi tumchababtit asa zalai ka ki tumcha swabhav tasa nasun tumhi nakalat paristhitimule tase vagta ani mag janmabharasathi apan ase ka vaglo ashi chutput manala lagun rahte. Majhababtit he ghadlai ani majhach vagnyacha rag mala ajunahi yeto.
September 2004 madhe Japan la jaila nighale teva Mumbai-Bangkok (by Air india), bangkok-Osaka (By JAL-Japan airlines) asa flight milala hota. Bangkok la Transit time hota fakt 1 tas. Adhich Vimanpravas asla ki mala tension yeta ugichach bhas hotat ki aplyala sodun flight gela, kiwa cutoms vale tras detaet, kiwa transit madhe saman haravlai. Tyat ya veli asa 1 tasacha transit tyamule mi agdich hyper zale hote. Pahilyandach bangkok airport la utarnar hote tyamule check in counter kiti lamb asel he mahit navta, through check-in karta yeil ki nahi he pan mahit navta. Tyat Air india cha air hostess ne doka firavla hota, to tar ek veglach kissa ahe. Tya divshi Air india ne punha pravas na karnyachi ghetleli shapath mi ajunahi modli nahie.
Bangkok airport la utarlya utarlya JAL cha check in counter la dhavat sutaicha asa mi tharavla hota. Mumbai hun nighnyaadhi baryach jannai bapre 1 tasach transit flight miss hoil ha nit ja asa mhanun adhich ghabravun takla hota. Majha bangkok -osaka flight la bahutek ya flight madhla konich navta. Bahuda Transit vali mich ekti hote asa mala vatta. Hatat ek jad handbag hoti, galyat ek bag hoti. Tari handbagela wheels hoti mhanun mi nirdhast hote.
Bangkok la flight madhun baher yeiparyant 20 mins geli hoti tyapudhe mala JAL cha counter shodhun boarding pass gheun gate kade jaicha hota. "Transit passengers this way" asa ek board mala disla ani mi baher padlelya lokancha garditun dhavat nighale dar 2 min ni "Transit passengers this way" ha board disat hota pan counters cha namonishan navta kuthe, lambcha lamb akkha mokla osad passage hota fakt. Flight madli loka kadhich mage rahili hoti. Mage valun pahila tar konich nahi ani samorahi konich nahi mi barobar challey ki nahi hehi mala mahit navta. Vicharnar tari konala koni manus navta. lambun ek counter disla manat hush zala ithe vicharava mhanun mi tya counter la gele. Ek Thai mulgi tya counter var hoti ani ek indian 60 cha aaspass aslela gujrati jodpa tila kahitari vicharat hota. Tyanna bahutek bhashech problem hota ani tila kahihi samjat navta mi tya counter var alya alya tya jodpyatlya bai ne mala vicharla saman kaha pe aaega. Pan mi flight pakdaicha tension ne itki hyper zalele ki pata nahi asa saral sangun takla ani madhe ghusun JAL cha Check in counter kuthe ahe tya Thai mulila vicharla. Tya Thai muline mala you have very less time saral ja lavkar mhanun sangitla. Shevtacha ardha tas hota majhakade ajun kiti lamb java lagnar hota mahit navta. Majha uttar milalyabarobar mi dhavat nighale, Air india cha tya air hostess mule majha bagecha wheel modla hota, bag uchlun dhavna mala ashakya hota tyamule tasach patta khechat bag farpatat mi palat hote, kharatar khupach majedar drushya hota. Mi ani hatatlya 2 heavy bags asha 3 jad vastu palat nighalya hotya, ekhadya khecharala farpatat nyava tashi mi ti bag net hote. Shevti ekdache mala Check in counters disle. Tya AC madhe pan kapalavar gham ala hota. JAL cha counter magcha bajula hota. Tithe jaun dhapa takat ubhi rahile, pahilach prashna vicharla flight gela ka. Counter varchi mulgi god hasli "No No still lot of time 20 mins" tine majha check in bags cha status check kela mala boarding pass dila ani Gate No. XX la ja sangitla. Still lot of time he tiche shabda eikun majha jivat jiv ala, manatle hajaro vichar ekdam palun gele ani dolyasamor ala te kavrabavra zalela jodpa. Swatala flight milavi mhanun tya Jodpyala kahihi madat na karta mi nighun ale hote. Swatachich kiw vatli, mala tyanna madat karta ali asti pan mag mi velet pochle naste. Swatacha flight pakadnyasathi mi ashi swarthi zale hote, tyanna nakkich tyancha saman milala asel pan tyasathi tyanna kiti tras zala asel. Tyancha babtit ghadla tasa udya majha aai babancha, aji ajobancha babtit hi ghadu shakta teva asach koni vagla tar mala kiti rag yeil. Mag fakt te anolkhi lok udya ayushayt aplyasamor kadhi yenar nahit mhanun mala tyanna madat karavishi vatli nahi ka? Rahun rahun tya kavryabavrya zalelya baicha chehra majhasamor yet hota. Kuthe pahilyandach bichare pardeshwari var nighale astil ani pahilach anubhav tyanna asa ala asel to pan eka bhartiyakadun, kai mhanale astil te mala. Agdi japan la pocheparyant mala te jodpa dolyasamor yet hota ani ajunahi to divas athavla ki mala majha tya vagnukicha pashchattap hoto.
Majha jagi tumhi asta tar tumhi kase vagla asta? Agdi manapasun khara uttar dya. Man by nature is a selfish animal ki Revati by nature is a selfish animal ya uttaracha shodhat mi ajunahi ahe.

Mariko

To majha Aichi University madhe janyacha agdi pahila divas hota. Adlya divshi Otosan ni mala tithe neun train cha ticket kuthe kadhaicha, train kuthe badlaichi, canteen, library, majha varga konta, ithparyant sagla firvun anla hota, nighta nighta agdi ladies toilet kuthe ahe he suddha shodhun kadhla tyanni. Mala pahilit gelelya mulisarkhach vatat hota agdi. Dusrya divsapasun matra mala ektilach jaicha hota college la. Udya college madhe jaun kiti navin japani maitrini hotil yacha vichar karatach mi zople hote adlya divshi.
Dusrya divshi sakali 6 la uthun velet tayar zale, ani 8.10 chi train pakdaila cycle varun susat sutle. Station var cycle park keli ani majha train chi vat baghat thamble. Pahilyandach ekti baher padat hote tyamule excitement barobar ek bhiti pan hoti. Pan tari swatach swatala cheer up karat mi train cha dishene najar laun basle hote. Majha vicharanchi tandri train cha Tan Tan Tan avajane modli, 2 dabyanchi chhotishi train majhasamor yeun thambli. Koni majha vayachi mulgi train madhe distey ka mi shodhat hote mhanje mag majha station yeiparyant olakh karun japani madhun gappa marta alya astya. Pan sagli shalet janari ani agdi kanat kirrrraa hoiparyanta nakatun bolnari high school chi mula muli, tie ani suitatli purushmandali pahun majha utsahach gela. Aaj train cha bahercha soundarya pahuya mhanun ek rikami seat shodhun mi basle.
Pudhcha station ala ani ek atishai god mulgi aat ali. Tapore dole, tyavar halkasa gulabi make up ani gori gori paan. Mala vatla tine majhashejari yeun basava ani kharach ti yeun majha bajulach basli. Mi vichar karat hote hichashi kahitari bolu ka, hi nit uttar deil ka? Pan mi kahich bolle nahi pudhacha station suddha ala ani tinech mala vicharla "Where are you from?" Mi manat mhatla arere hi tar english boltey mhanje hi kahi majhashi Japanimadhun bolnar nahi pan tari mi tila Japanitun uttar dila "Indo kara desu" (I am from india). Ti jorat kinchalli "tula kiti chhan japani yetaaa!!!! Mi 2 varsha Canada madhe rahun aley pan majha english agdich todka modka ahe". Majha eka uttarat tine mala kiti Japani yeta he kasa kai tharavla hota te tilach mahit. Tu kai kartes? mi kai karte? Tu ithe kashi alis? ya choukasha hota hota ticha station ala tine patkan swatacha number dila ani majha number ghetla ki apan punha bhetuya. Mi hoo nakki karun tila bye kela. "Mariko Nakajima" nav hota ticha. 2 divsanni kharach ticha phone ala. Okasan shi ti khup chhan bolli. Okasan la ascharya vatla ki eka divsat mi maitrini gola karaila survat suddha keli. Khush zali okasan, "ghe ghe tujha maitrinicha phone alai." Phone thevlyavar matra okasane ne ekhadya aaine karya tasha saglya choukasha kelya, kon hi mulgi, kuthe bhetli, kai karte, changli ahe ka?

Phone var mi ani Mariko ne punha bhetaicha tharavla. Ti mala tempura khaila gheun janar hoti. Divas tharla vel tharli. Jya divshi bhetnar hoto teva ticha phone ala ki majhabarobar majhi Onesan (Onesan mhanje mothi bahin) ani ticha navra ale tar chalel ka? Tyanna suddha tula bhetaicha ahe. Mi mhatla nakki aan tyanna. Te tighahi mala station var ghyayla ale. Majha te Japan madhla pahila outing hota. Tichi bahin suddha tichaitkich chhan hoti.Ticha navryacha nav hota Takachan ani Onesan cha nav Kimichan. Amhi eka Japani restaurant madhe gelo, bharpur gappa marlya potbhar Ebi tempura khalla. Tya 2 tasatach amcha khup chhan group jamla.India baddalcha tyancha prashnanna uttara detana mala khup maja yet hoti. Amhala parat yayla 10 vajle, pan tya tighanni mala agdi daraparyant sodla. Jata jata Okasan ani Otosan na hi bhetle ani bolta bolta Otosan ani Marikoche vadil ekmekanna olakhtat he kalla. World is too small mhantat tech khara. Okasan ani otosan pan tyanna bhetun mala changli company milali mhanun nirdhast zale. Okasan ne tithlya tithech tyanna ghari jevaila suddha bolvun takla....
Ekatra dinner ani mag Karaoke asa mast plan amhi kela. Karaoke ani daru milali ki Japani manus khush. Gata yeta ki nahi yala mahatva ajibat nahi...nusta mic hatat dharta ala ki zala. Jevan zalyavar amhi Karaoke room madhe baslo, Otosan ni takachan sathi tyancha bar open kela. Japani lokanmadhe ek paddhat ahe ki alelya pahunyacha glass rikama hou dyaycha nahi. Daru nusti otat rahaichi. Mi, Mariko ani Kimichan ekamagun ek gani mhanat sutlo hoto ani takachan ekamagun ek beer che can sampvat sutla hota. Otosan tyacha ek can zala ki dusra anun thevat hote. Total 15 cans tyane sampavle hote ani tarihi to shuddhit hota. Shevti Kimichan ne tyala ata bas kar mhanun sangitla teva kuthe to thambla. Khup maja ali tyadivshi.
Tyanantar dar mangalwari ani shukrawari mi ani Mariko train madhe bhetaila laglo. Train madhe shirlyabarobar tichi najar malach shodhat asaichi ani mi tichi jaga advun baslele asaiche. Mag ardha tas bharpur gappa vaicha.1 mahinyatach amhi agdi ghanishta maitrini zalo hoto. Tila aslela indiabaddalcha kutuhal nehami ticha bolnyatun janvaicha.
Japan sodtana shevatchi tila bhetle teva doghinchehi dole panavle hote. Punha kadhi bhetu ki nahi asa vatat hota, mi india la nakki yein asa tine mala sangitla. India la alyavar suddha e-mail ani phone ne amhi touch madhe hotoch.
Gelya varshi ticha lagna zala teva mi nemki Osaka madhe hote. Lagnala nahi jau shakle pan shinshiro la gelyavar ek divas tichasathich thevla hota. Agdi kadkadun bhetlo. Ti ticha navryala gheun ali hoti...khup chhan vatla tila settle zalela pahun. Pahilyanda bhetlo hoto teva mala lagnach karaicha nahi asa jeva ti mhanali hoti teva vait vatla hota ki hallicha japani trend pramane hi pan lagna na kartach rahili tar?? Itki sundar ani god mulgi kasa ghalvel ektine ticha ayushya? Khup kalji vatli hoti. Pan tila ticha jodidar milalela pahun mala khup anand zala. Ata amcha choughancha group madhe ticha navrahi hota...akkhi sandhyakal amhi saglyanni khup maja keli.
Punha Amit la gheun jeva shinshiro la gele teva matra amhi bhetu shaklo nahi. Majhi khup iccha hoti ki Amitnehi tya sarvanna bhetava. Pan nahi shakya zala. Tichahi jiv khup chutputla, shinshiro paryant yeun bhet nahi zali amchi.
Japan cha athvanit ramle ki Mariko dolyasamor alyashivai rahat nahi. Nagashima spa land la, agdi khali doka var pai karnarya rides madhe basun keleli dhamal. Train madhlya gappa. Bowling la jaun mi kelela 0 cha score ani shopping sathi ulthe palthe kelele shopping malls. Khup athvan yete tichi ani amhi ekatra kelelya majechi.
Ya athvanitun swatala baher kadhta kadhta manat ekach prashna urto to mhanje Mariko, ata punha kadhi??

Majhi Patra Maitri

Shalecha divsanmadhe penfriend karnyacha khup fad hota, mala lahanpanapasunach parkiya sanskruti baddal kutuhal vataicha. Germany, greece cha 2 maitrini zalye hotya, tya kalat atta itka internet ani computer cha shirkav zalela navta, tyamule patranchi vat pahnari loka hoti ani tyatli mi pan ek hote. Dar mahinyala germany kiwa greece hun ek tari patra asaichach, te pakit hatat padlya padlya ek veglach anand vaicha, ani te pakit ughadlya ughadlya tya patrala ek manda asa sugandha yaycha jo mala khupach avdaicha, agdi 2-3 vela vachun ani 5-6 vela vaas gheun zalyashivai kahi mi te patra thevaiche nahi. Aplyala pan konitari patra lihitai ani te pan itkya lambun hi kalpanach khup chhan hoti tya shalkari vayat. halu halu patra kami hot geli dar mahinyala yenari patra 2 mahinyatun ekda mag 3 mahinyatun ani Greece cha maria shi tar agdich patravyavahar banda zala. Ata ti kuthe asel, kashi asel kahich patta nahi, pan tine pathavlele photo, tichi juni patra ajunahi majha kade ahet. Internet var ticha navane ek don vela search kela pan kahi kalla nahi. Germany cha kerstin chi patra matra yet rahaichi, ti ajun suddha sambandha theun ahe, varshatun ekhadi tari e-mail astech.

Japani bhasha shikaila laglyavar, mala suddha ekhadi japani maitrin asavi asa khup vataicha. Ekda internet surfing kartana eka website var mi pen friend sathi majha nav takla ani kahi mahinyanni mi tyabaddal visrun suddha gele, ani achanak eke divshi majha navane patra ala. Pakitavar japan cha stamp pahun thoda ascharya vatla, patra ughdun vachaila survat keli, Tomoko navacha eka japani muline tutkya futkya english madhe lihilela pan chitranni chhan sajavlela te patra mala khupach avadla. Tila bharatabaddal khup kutuhal hota ani tine sanskrit bhashecha suddha abhyas kela hota, pan tila bahutek mi japani shiktey he mahit navta, tila tya website varun majha patta milala hota ani bharatabaddal aslelya kutuhalapoti tila hi ek bhartiya maitrin havi hoti. Mi tila lagechach uttar pathavla ani te pan Japani bhashetun. Mala Japani yeta he pahun tila khupach anand zala hota, pudhcha 1-2 patranmadhe aamchi changlich olakh vadhli hoti. Ti vayane majhapeksha barich mothi hoti tyamule mi tila Tomoko cha eivaji Onesan mhanu lagle (Onesan mhanje mothi bahin). Tila 2 lahan mula suddha hoti Kousyuke ani Syunsuke.
Tine patratun kadhleli chitra tar khupach sundar asaichi, tila Sanskrit bhasha ajun shikaichi hoti, pan lahan mulanna sambhalun kahi tila te jamnar navta tyamule mule mothi zalyavar mi ajun shiknar ahe ase tine mala ekda lihila hota. Barech mahine amcha patravyavahar chalu hota. Ek done vela phonevar suddha bollo hoto. College ani class mule mala patra lihaila vel milenasa zala mag amhi lavkarach e-mail maitrini zalo. Majhi khup iccha hoti ki asha kadhich na pahilelya maitrinila ekda tari bhetava ani 2004 madhe mi jeva Japan la gele teva majhi ti iccha pan purna zali.
Mi Nagoya la rahat hote ani Tomoko tottori la. 2 tokach hoti kharitar, kadhi ani keva bhetnar hoto te mala pan mahit navta pan ti mala dar 15 divsatun ekda tari phone karaichich. India la parat yaycha adhi mi Japan firnyacha bet kela hota. Tottori paryant jana shakya navta karan vel kami hota, 4 divas Tokyo la rahun pudhe south la Kyoto, nara, Osaka baghaicha majha bet hota. Tomoko la mi majha plan sangitla, Kyoto la mi nemki weekend la janar hote, tyamule ti mhanali ki majha maher Kyoto la ahe mi tithe yete ani mag apan bhetu, tula jar chalnar asel tar tu suddha ek divas majha aaikade raha amhala khup chhan vatel. Ticha te premacha amantran pahun mala khupach chhan vatla.
Tokyo hun nightana mi tila majha train number, compartment number phone karun kalavla. Sakali 9 vajtach mi Kyoto la pochnar hote. 溺ulanna pan gheun yenar ahes ka?・mi tila vicharla, 杜ula kahi lavkar uthnar nahit tyamule station la mi ektich yein・asa tine mala sangitla. Station var utarlyavar ti mala patkan olkhu shaknar hoti pan gardi asti tar mala tila olakhna thoda kathin gela asta.
Tokyo te Kyoto ya 3 tasanmadhe mi hach vichar karat basle hote ki kadhi na pahileli itkya durcha deshatli ek mulgi mala eke divshi patra lihite, amchi maitri hote ani 3 varshanni chakka ticha deshat amhi bhetto. Nehami 殿sa zala tar kiti maja yeil na!・ashi vatnari goshta chakka ghadat hoti. Patratun itka chhan lihinari ani phonevar itki god bolnari Tomoko kharach tashi asel ka? ticha lahan mulanna mi avden ka? mi anleli gifts tyanna avadtil ka? mi ashi lagech ticha ghari jaila tayar zaley te ticha aai vadilanna avadla asel ka? Itke hajaro vichar majha dokyat chalu hote. Darveli shinkansen madhe baslya baslya zopun janari mi tya veli matra zopu shakle nahi. Kadhi ekda Kyoto la pochte asa zala hota. Kyoto station alyachi announcement zali ani mi lagech darajaval jaun ubhi rahile. Train thambli ani utarlya utarlya mala samor Tomoko disli. Adhi photo pahilela aslyane ani platform var konich naslyane mi tila lagech olkhu shakle. Angane gutguit, dolyavar chashma ani chehryavar god hasu asha tomoko la pahilyanda pahun mala prachanda anand zala. Tine pan mala lagech olkhla ani ti lagech pudhe ali itkyat majha train cha dabyacha dusrya darashi ubha aslela ek lahan mulga dhavat tichajaval ala ani mala ektak pahu lagla, Tomoko ne tyala mhatla 塗i bagh are ali Revati・ tyala bahutek mi to ubha aslelya daratun utren asa vatla hota tyamule to thodasa khattu zala hota. Tine majhi tyachashi olakh karun dili, to ticha 9 varshacha motha mulga Kousyuke hota, mi mhatla 菟an ha tar yenar navta na? kashala sakali uthvun anlas bicharyala・tar tine sangitla ki aga 電onhi mula ratripasunach tu yenar mhanun gondhal ghalat hoti ani sakali 6 vajta uthun amhi Revati la anaila yenar mhanun hatta karat basli hote, Syunsuke majha vadilanbarobar baher gadit basla ahe, to farach lajra ahe tyamule to platform var yayla pan lajat hota・ Mala gammatach vatli te sagla eikun ani manatun anand pan zala karan kharach ekhadi maitri kiwa ekhadha nata donhi bajune titkich odh aslyashivai kadhich tiku shakat nahi, ani tasach zala hota, mala jitki tila bhetaichi tivra iccha hoti titkich tila ani ticha mulanna pan hoti, nahitar muddam mala bhetaila, ti mulanna gheun itkya lamb kashala ali asti.
Amhi station cha baher jaila nighalo, Kousyuke haluch haluch majhakade baghat amcha bajune chalat hota, mi haluch tyacha khandyavar hat thevla ani tyane lajun manach khali ghatli, kadachit tyala suddha asa vatat asava ki itkya lambun aleli hi mulgi aplyashi kashi vagel aplya ekhadya goshticha tila rag tar yenar nahi na. Mhanun kadachit to itka shanta ani gappa hota ani mi tyala bolta karaicha prayatnat hote.
Amhala Kyoto station varun ajun ek train badlaichi hoti, train change karun amhi tichi aai jithe rahte tya station la alo. Train madhe suddha kousyuke shantapane amcha goshti eikat hota. Tyacha dokyat kai chalu asava yacha vichar mi karat hote. Tomoko ne ani mi tya 15 -20 minutes madhe baryach gappa marlya. Station la alyvar tiche vadil ani ticha lahan mulga syunsuke gadit amchi vat pahat basle hote. Syunsuke ne Tomoko kade udi marli pan mi tyachashi bollyabarobar tyane je lajun tond valavla te ghar yeiparyant tasach amhi tyacha lajrya swabhavala khup haslo. Mi. tomoko ani kousyuke pathimage baslo ani tiche vadil ani Syunsyuke pudhe. Syunsuke haluch 2 seats cha madhun mala pahat hota ani amchi najar milali ki lajat hota. Kousyuke majha bajula basla hota mi haluch tyacha hat dharla ata to suddha halu halu bolat hota majhashi. Kahi velatach amhi ticha ghari pochlo. Ek chhotasa, tumdar agdi assal Japani ghar disat hota te. Aat shirlya shirlya tichi aai palat amcha swagat karaila pudhe ali, tichakade pahun konalahi khara vatla nasta ki hila 2 natvanda ahet. Kesancha bob cut, angat lamb skirt ani Tshirt ani tondavar Tomoko sarkhach god ani premal hasu.

Amhi pochlo teva 11.30 vajle hote, japani lokanchi jevaichi vel mhanje 12 te 1 tyamule fresh zalyavar lagechach tomoko ani ticha aai ne jevnachi tayari suru keli, 3 mahine okasasan kade rahun ata mala Japani jevan khup avdaila lagla hota. Miso shiru, Tempura, Yaki soba, salad asa barach kahi tyanni banavla hota. Jevan zalyavar mi saglyansathi anlelya gifts kadhlya, mula te pahun khupach khush zali ani tomoko la pan mi anlela Top khupach avadla. Kousyuke mala tyacha shaletlya goshti sangat basla hota itkyat apla dada hichashi itka boltoi mag mi ka mage rahu asa samjun Syunsuke ne madhech udi marli ani mi tyachakade laksha dyava mhanun to majha aas paas khodya karu lagla, mi haluch 1-2 vela tyala pakdaicha prayatna kela pan to kahi hati ala nahi. Tyacha khodyanmule mi kousyuke kade jasta laksha det nahie he pahun tyane uthun syunsuke la bajula dhaklun dila ani mag ji kahi doghanchi maramari chalu zali, baapre!! Agdi ekmekanche gale avalle hote doghanni, mi Tomoko la mhatla 殿ga tyanna orad・pan tine suddha eka typical aai sarkha uttar dila, 鏑askha deu nakos, jaravelane apoap shanta hotil, ani thodyavelane galyat gale ghalun kheltil suddha, nehamicha ahe he mala・ Mi tari suddha tya doghanna bajula karaicha prayatna karat hote. Shevti thakun tyanchi maramari sampli. Jaravelane syunsukene mala ek dabba anun dila, mhanala 塗e tujhasathi gift ahe, please ughdun bagh, tula avdel ki nahi mahit nahi・ Mi to daba ughadla ani tyat tya chhotyachi tya vayatli khup kimati sampatti hoti, tyane gola kelele shankha, shimple, stickers ani crayon pencils. Tyane muddam mi yenar mhanun he sagla anla hota, mi tyala javal odhun tyache gaal odhle ani mala tyacha gift khup avadlyachi pavti pan deun takli.
Dupari 3-4 vajta Tomoko che vadil amhala saglyanna Shiga ken la gheun gele, tithli Pottery mhane khup famous ahe, Gadit syunsuke chi masti chaluch hoti, pan kousyuke matra shanta majha bajula basun majha bolna agdi nit laksha deun eikat hota. Majhe pratyek havbhav barkaine baghat hota. Kai chalu hota tyacha manta dev jane. Shiga ken la jatana ajubajula disnari drushya tar khupach sundar hoti. Donhi bajula hirve gar dongar ani samor kadhich sampnar nahi asa vatnara saral sot rasta. Tithle raste ani gadya ya itkya comfortable astat ki majhasarkha mumbaicha local ani bus cha dhakkabukkit pravas kelela manus tithlya gadit baslyavar zopla nahi tar ascharya. Majhahi tithe tech vaicha mi kontyahi gadit daradur zopaiche, ani teva pan mi jaravelane zopun gele. Shiga ken la amhi eka motthya pottery shop madhe gelo hoto, itki sundar ani vegveglya prakarchi crokery pahun majhatli gruhini jagi zali, manatlya manat he aplya kitchen madhe kasa disel yacha vichar mi chalu kela. Pan parat jatana aslelya samanach weight limit mule mi kahihi gheu shakle nahi. Tithe jaravel firun zalyavar amhi ghari parat yayla nighalo, ghari pocheparyant 6 vajle hote. Ghari alyavar mulanshi ani tomoko shi gappa marnyat chhan vel gela, tomoko mala ticha lagnache photo dakhvat hoti. Kimono ghalun agdi bahuli disat hoti ti. Jaravelane ti kontitari juni motthi pustaka gheun ali, sanskrit madhil geeta ani upanishada hi ti pustaka hoti. Mi ghabarlech mala vatla ata hi mala yachavar prashna vicharnar ki kai ani indian asun mala uttar deta ala nahi tar laaj nighel. Pan tine mala tyatle tine shiklele dhade, avadlelya goshti, na kallelya goshti sangitlya. Ticha knowledge pahun malach laj vatat hoti ki swataha bhartiya asun mi ajun kadhi upanishada ani geetecha abhyas kelela nahi. Tine mala kahi prashna na vicharta lavkarat lavkar ti pustaka thevavit hech besharam vichar majha manat chalu hote, ani bhagwan ne meri sun li. Lavkarch tine ti pustaka theun dili, eka mothya sankatatun sutka zalyasarkha vatla mala.

Ratri zopaicha veli majhi gadi eka kholit ani mulancha ani Tomokocha gadya eka kholit ghatlya gelya. Kholya mhanje eka motthya kholila fakt madhe sliding doors karun 2 kholya karnyat alya hotya, ani mala ekta vatu naye mhanun te darvaje ughdech thevle hote. Kousyuke Tomoko kade kaslatari hatta karat hota, ani ti tyala haluch dam det hoti, mi vicharla kai zala? ti mhanali "yala tujha bajula zopaicha ahe ani to hatta kartoi pan tu damli ahes tyamule tyala ithech zopu det, tula tras hoil". Mala kharatar khup anand zala hota pan mag vatla kadachit tila avdat nasel tyane ithe zoplela, tyamule mi suddha far agraha kela nahi. Mi kharach damle hote tyamule mulanchi masti pahta pahta kadhi zop lagli kallach nahi.
Sakali dole ughadle ani ekdam dachakle karan majha chehryacha agdi javal 2 chhote michmiche japani dole majha chehryacha nirikshan karat hote. To kousyuke hota, ratri tomoko ne tyala majhajaval zopu na dilyane to majha bajula zopun majha chehryacha nirikshan karat hota. Mala khupach gammat vatli mhatla kai chalu asel yacha manat, hi dusrya deshatli mulgi hila pan aplyasarkhich zop lagat asel ka. kashi asel hichi rahni? Mala lahan astana padnare sagle prashna tyacha dokyat chalu hote evdha matra nakki. Mi tyala haluch ek smile dili ani tyacha angavar hat takun tyala gadivar odhun ghetla. Tomoko he sagla pahat hoti mi ticha mulanche kelele lad ticha manala khatri patvun det asavet ki jari hi dusrya deshatun ali asli tari hi suddha aplyasarkhich ek samanya mulgi ahe. Farak fakt bhashecha ani sanskruticha.
Ujadlela ravivar farach kantalwana vatat hota karan mala kahi tasanni tithun nighaicha hota ani Kyoto sightseeing la jaicha hota. Uthun breakfast karun tayar hoiparyant 10 vajle hote. Tomoko la pan tottori la parat jaicha hota karan dusrya divsapasun mulanchi shala hoti. Ti mala kyoto station la sodun bus madhe basvun deun Tottori la janar hoti.
Tomoko cha aai vadilanni amhala station var sodla.
Ata Kousyuke chi kurbur chalu zali hoti to Tomoko la sarkha sangat hota ki "Revati ka challi ahe, tila jau nako sang" ani ti tyachi samjut kadhat hoti. Mala pan tyanna bye karun jatana kasatarich vatat hota. 2 divsat itka lala lavnari mansa bhetlyavar ajun kai hava hota mala tya parkya deshat. Tomoko pan nagoya la rahat asti tari kiti bara zala asta asa sarkha vatat hota. Kyoto station var alya alya amhi adhi majha sightseeing bus cha booking kela. Ajun 1 tas hota bus yayla tyamule lunch karun bus stop varach amhi gappa marat baslo. Syunsuke tithe aslelya kabootarancha thavyamage dhavat sutla hota, ekahi kabootara la mi basu denar nahi asa tyane panach kela hota bahutek. Donhi hat pasrun nusta tya kabootarancha mage lagla hota to, kousyuke matra Tomoko cha shejari mi jau naye asa hatta karat basla hota. Itkyat amchasamorach bhali motthi bus yeun ubhi rahili, majhich bus hoti ti. Driver ne lambunach hat dakhvun ajun thoda vel ahe ashi amhala khun keli ani to ticket counter kade gela. Mi bus javal jaun ubha rahuya mhanun uthle ani kousyuke cha hat dhareparyant tyacha donhi dolyatun tapatap ashru galaila survat zali hoti, agdi evdhusa chehra zala hota, barke michmiche dole ajunach lal ani barik zale hote. Tyache dole pusta pusta majha dolyatun pan kadhi ganga jamuna vahaila laglya te kallach nahi. Yala radu nako sang asa mhanaila Tomoko kade pahte tar ticha hi dolyatun ghalaghala pani. Tine Kousyuke la samjavaila javal odhla ani mi na rahavun tya doghannahi ghatta mithi marli. Khup varshanchi olakh aslyasarkhe amhi tighahi hamsun radaila laglo hoto. Tyanchakade path karun jaila suddha kasatari vatat hota, tomoko ne maza hat ghatta dharla ani "Itsumademo tomodachi ne" (mhanje ata apan kayamcha maitrini zalo na) asa ek prashna kela, mi ticha hat titkach ghatta dharla tyamule tila majha uttar milala hota.

Ata matra mala nighaila hava hota karan bus madhli bakichi loka ali hoti. Mi tomoko kade path na kartach ultya pavlanni kousyuke la hat karat bus madhe chadhle, majhi seat pahili, ajun driver ala navta tyamule mi punha khali utarle. Amcha radne samarop pahun chhotya syunsuke ne pan majha dishela hat karun jordar bhokad pasarla hota. Mi punha ekda jaun donhi mulanche dole pusle ani apan nakki parat bhetu ashi khatri deun nighale. Amchi judai pahta pahta tithe stand var ubhi asleli ek bai suddha radaila lagli hoti. Bus suru zali tasa syunsukecha radna ajunach vadhla, kousyuke matra shanta zala hota pan tyacha evdhasa zalela chehra matra tasach hota. Majhi bus kopryavar valeparyant te tighahi hat halvat ubhe hote. Te tigha disenase zale tari majha dolyasamorun kahi kousyukecha chehra jaina, sakali uthun majha nirikshan karnara to niragas chehra ani mi jatana hamsun radun dukkhi honara to evdhasa chehra. Kiti niragas hota to. Amhi adlyach divshi pahilyanda bhetloi he sangun suddha konala khara vatna shakya navta.
Tya shevatcha kahi minitancha khshnane kevdha kahi dila hota mala, ek janmabharachi maitri, kadhich na visarta yenara anubhav ani majhavar jivapad prem karnarya 3 vyakti. Manat vicharancha dwandwa chalu hota ki yanna bhetnyasathich mala devane japani bhasha shikaichi buddhi dili ? ki Japani bhasha shikle mhanun aaj ithe yeun yanna bhetu shakle? Eka patra maitricha rupantar eka ghatta maitricha natyat zala hota.

Missing you Baba

Ayushyat pahilyanda khup varsha sahavasat asleli, khup javalchi vyakti geli. Majhe babudi (ajoba) amhala saglyanna sodun gele. Vay varsha 94 ani tarihi swatachi sagli kama konavarahi avlambun na rahta swataha karnare. Agdi shevatcha 15 divsat hospital madhe astana suddha aplyamule amha sarvanna tras hotoi asa gairsamaj manat ugichach balagnare amche saglyanche baba, shantapane gele. Agdi hospital madhlya wardboy pasun doctor paryant saglyanni mhatla ki itka cooperative patient amhi kadhi pahila nahi.

Tyanchi athvan kadhaila basla ki agdi lahanpanapasunche divas athavtat. Majha nav pan tyannich thevla asa mummy sangte, kadachit mhanunach ka mahit nahi pan te majhe khup ladke hote. Agdi tyanche gal odhnyapasun tyancha kesancha hairstyle karnyaitki masti amcha saglya bhavandanmadhe mich karaiche, tyannsuddha majha khodya kadhaila titkach avdaicha. Ata he sagla athvani purtach rahnar yacha khup vait vatta. Mala te madhyantari phone var baryachda mhanaiche ki tu lavkar ye mi tujhi vat pahatoi. Ka mahit nahi pan te asa bolle ki manat khup kalvakalav vaichi.
Tyanchabaddal kiti pan lihila tari kamich vatta. Satat vachan karne ha ek tyancha chhandach hota. Tyancha kalat French bhashecha dnyan aslele te ekameva asavet asa mala vatta. Shikleli bhasha visru naye mhanun te adhun madhun dictionary ughdun basat asat. Ya vayat suddha tyanna share market chi purepur mahiti asaichi. Internet shiknyasathi te dhadpadaiche, koni nastana haluch dupari PC chalu karun amhi lihun dilelya steps ne mails open hotaet ka te pahaiche. Mi japan la astana majhashi chat suddha karaiche, webcam var tyanna hastana pahila ki khup bara vataicha.

Tyancha shevatcha divasat kahi divas tyanchabarobar rahta ala he samjun samadhan vatun ghyaycha ki te ata mala kadhich disnar nahit he janun dolyatla pani dabun dharaicha hech kalat nahi.

Parlyala ghari gelyavar atta samor yetil asa sarkha vatta. Gharakhalun balcony kade pahila ki paper vachat baslela tyancha chehra ata tithe ka nahi asa sarkha vatta. Gharacha pratyek kopryat aslela tyancha astitva sarkha janvat rahta. Hall madhe ala ki disto to tyancha hasatmukh ani handsome photo.

Barech jana mhanale ki sharirala tras houn tyanni bichhanyavar khilun rahnyapeksha te yatnatun sutle, pan apla manus ha aplyala kitihi jagla tari kamich vatto. Tyancha vai zala hota, sharir thakla hota, nisargacha niyamapramane tya sharirane sath sodli pan tyancha amcha manatla astitva kadhich kuthe jau shakat nahi. Te ajunahi jagnar ahet joparyant amhi sagle ahot toparyanta.

Ekhadya mansala ekhadyacha nidhanachi khabar kalavli ki eiknara mhanto "arere bichare". Pan baba gelyavar mala ya vakyacha khara artha kalla ki te “arere bichare” he gelelya vyakti la uddeshun asla tari khare bichare apan mage rahileli mansa asto. jag sodun janara kadhich bichara nasto, karan to tyacha ya pruthvivarcha karyabhag sampvun navya dishela gelela asto. Bichare asto te apan karan ata he kathin satya manya karun hasre mukhavte ghalun aplyala jagaicha asta.

Kharach baba, tumcha physical astitva amchat nasla tari tumhi amchat ahat. Dar veli mi lihilela kahihi tumhi avdine vachaichat, yaveli tumcha abhipray mala kalnar nahi, pan majha bhavna tumchaparyant nakkich pochtil yachi mala khatri ahe. We love you Bobs and will always miss you too. Jithe kuthe asal tithun tumcha premal hat amcha pathivarun sadaiva firva.

Majhe Japan prem

Japani bhasha shiknarya saglyancha he ek swapnach asta ki Japan ekda tari pahava, tithlya lokanna bhetava ani tithli sanskruti samjun ghyavi, aple bhasheche dnyan vadhvave. Majhi hi manapasun iccha hoti ki mala ekda tari Japan pahaichai, agdi 4 divas ka hoina pan Japan la jaichach ahe ani te suddha swatacha himativar. Agdi konti scholarship nahi milali, office cha through chance nahi milala tari paise sathvun mi janarach ani aai ne mala nehamich protsahan dila ki iccha sodu nakos, ek divshi nakki jashil.
Ekhada chamatkar ghadava tasach kahi zala ani mi chakka April 2004 madhe Japan madhe hote, ani thodya thodkya 4 divsansathi nahi tar pudhche 6 mahine mala Japani ayushya jagaicha hota. Lagna houn 3 mahine zale hote tari amit cha support, sasu sasryanni anandane dileli sanmati ani majha mom ani dad cha protsahan itka sagla pathishi astana, mala Japan madhle 6 mahine ektine kadhna ajibat kathin gela nahi.
Sagli raktachi nati sodun mi ekti eka parkya Japani kutumbabarobar rahaila ale hote. Majha agodar ya kutumbabarobar rahilelya Sujata shi adhich E-mail var mi sagli choukashi karun ghetli hoti ani thodi nirdhast zale hote. Pan tari india to Japan ya 10-12 tasach pravasatil manat yenare vichar mhanje sandhyakali Churchgate station var 6 cha virar local madhe ghusnarya gaccha gardi sarkhe hote.
Tokyo to Nagoya cha flight madhun pahilyanda pahilela Mt. Fuji ajunahi dolyapudhe yeto majha, nehami class madhlya calendar madhe pahilela to Fuji san pratyaksha pahtana angavar ek shahara ala hota anandane jorat ordavasa vatat hota pan nahi te Japani manners madhe basnar navta :-) tyamule to anand manat dabun thevtana dolyacha kada kadhi olya zalya te kallach nahi.
Nagoya airport la utarlyavar mala receive karaila alele Okasan ani Otosan (Japani bhashet aai la Okasan ani Vadilanna Otosan mhantat) ale hote. Pudhche 6 mahine hich majhi family hoti. Tithun majha Japani pravas chalu zala....mi Japan jagle agdi ek ek kshan manapasun jagle ani ya 6 mahinyat kalat nakalt anek nati julat geli agdi jivala jiv lavnari mansa bhetli ani Japan mhanje majha maherach zala. Japan hun parat alyavar mi ani amit punyat settle zalo, mi dekhil Zensar madhe job karu lagle, tithe suddha Japani maitrin zali ek. Adhun madhun Japan chi khup athvan yaychi, punha kadhi jaila milnar asa vataicha. Japan Japan kartana Amit cha kamamule America ani Muscat pan firun ghetla, tithe suddha mala Japani mansa bhetlich. Agdi pratyekavar lihaichai mala ya blog madhe, baghu kasa ani keva jamtai te.

Americehun parat alyavar punha kahi mahine punyat gele ani amhi Hyderabad la shift zalo.
Hyderabad la alyvar gharunach kama karat hote tyamule ekti asle ki Japan chi khup athvan yaychi kadhi kadhi amit kade pirpir pan karaiche ki kadhi janar mi punha japan la kadhi bhetnar punha saglyanna.
2 mahine zale hote Hyderabad la yeun ani freelancing madhe settle zaleli mi kadhich nav na eiklelya eka company cha interview la gele ani baghuya thode divas karun mhanun join suddha zale. Tithe baryachda Japani clients cha visits mule majha spoken japanese punha ekda brush up vaila survat zali. Kam suddha avdaila lagla. Join houn jemtem 1 mahina zala hota ani ek divas mala manager ne yeun vicharla tula ek-don mahine Japan-Osaka la jaila jamel ka. Khurchitun udalech mi pan ugich jasti excitement na dakhavta mi mhatla hmm jara vichar karun ani amit shi bolun sangte. Tyachi path valya valya amit la ph lavla...yahooo..... Dusryach divshi Visa sathi documents submit keli ani 9th April 2007 jaichi date pan fix zali. Tarikh pahun thoda ashcharya vatla ki are 9th April 2004 ani ata punha 9th April 2007, ha nivval yogayog mhanaicha ki kharach devachi iccha. Pan ithe alyavar ya veli ek khatri patli ki gelya janmichi nati he je kahi mhantat te kharach ahe, agdi 100% khara.
Osaka la yeun mi punha navin nati jodli ahet agdi kadhich na tutnari apulkichi nati, mi Japan cha premat padley, japani bhashecha premat padley ani japani lokancha suddha (amit tu ghabru nakos ha :-P) . Kiti lihava titka kamich ahe pan jitka jamel titka lihaicha prayatna karaicha ahe.

सुरवात...

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